Posted on 09/01/08
One of my most vivid memories of growing up Catholic before the Second Vatican Council is my second confession. Not my first confession. That was a pro forma ritual that took place just before my first communion, just as it does nowadays. My more memorable second confession, on a searing Saturday afternoon in Southern California’s tormenting July, was different. School was out for the summer, there were no coaching nuns to be seen, and the kindly old priest who had heard my first confession seemed to have vanished on vacation. Worst of all, I now had serious sins on my conscience, “mortal” sins that I was certain had eradicated every modicum of God’s saving grace from my soul. I had missed Sunday Mass at least twice, probably more. Catholics regard willfully missing Mass as grave because it is an insult to God.
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